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Celebrating and Overcoming the “Messy Middle” of the Author’s Journey

An Inside Look from the First Cohort of GRAD | Book Writing Mastery

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At HEROIC, entrepreneurs, leaders, and founders turn ideas into transformational messages and reader-focused books.

Along your authorship journey, it’s not uncommon to feel overwhelmed by the grandeur of the task at hand, to find yourself wrestling with your Core Message, ideas, or imminent deadlines, or to simply get stuck

If you’ve ever felt this way, you’re in good company. Every author (yes, even the published and bestselling ones) has walked through these same struggles. 

If you’ve ever second-guessed yourself, battled writer’s block, or worried you were behind, you’re not alone. Moments like these don’t disqualify you from continuing your writing journey. On the contrary, they’re the moments that shape you as an author. 

Struggles like overwhelm, self-doubt, and even realizing “I might be writing the wrong book” are not failures, they’re signs of growth. It doesn’t mean you don’t have what it takes to write a bestseller, it just means you’re in the “messy middle.”

And the “messy middle” is where breakthroughs happen.

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Having a proven writing process isn’t just a safety net, it’s a bridge to creative breakthroughs, newfound confidence, and future success.

Getting Stuck Isn’t Failure, It’s Part of the Process

In May of 2025, we celebrated the culmination of months of dedicated work, deep learning, feedback, and hands-on progress 12 authors made writing their books in the inaugural GRAD | Book Writing Mastery cohort. As Student Success Manager working with the first cohort, I observed students' progress throughout the program.

Like all authors, these HEROIC Alumni wrestled with doubts, obstacles, and getting stuck. The difference was that this cohort had structure, support, and accountability to help them keep moving forward.

We knew they’d encounter obstacles along the way; meaningful work always comes with friction. That’s why we designed this writing program with specific ways to help authors grow and progress on their authorship journey. As an educator, I’ve seen it again and again: without structure and accountability, students drift; with it, they grow. 

And these authors grew tremendously. They discovered frameworks they didn’t even realize they had. They started bravely down new paths as fresh ideas emerged. They gained clarity about their book, their message, and their authority as an author. The courage and growth I witnessed in this first cohort was simply extraordinary. 

We were reminded once again of this valuable truth: the writers who push through the messy middle often discover the most original insights.

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You’re probably closer to a breakthrough than you think. Don’t just simply overcome the “messy middle,” celebrate it—it’s the place where breakthroughs are born. Contextual model from The Referable Speaker by Michael Port and Andrew Davis.

Five Strategies for Overcoming the Messy Middle 

Every element in the program (from tools, resources, and support systems to the very structure of the writing process) was intentionally designed to help students master the fundamentals that shape the foundation of a great book. They didn’t just learn about writing; they actually did the work, step by step, building from those fundamentals upward.

And when authors did get stuck, we made sure there was always a way to get unstuck. These five essential aspects helped authors progress on their writing journey, especially in the moments when they felt discouraged or unsure.

#1 Accountability: the Fuel for Momentum 

Since the beginning phases of GRAD | Book Writing Mastery’s creation, we knew that accountability would be a major pillar of each individual author’s progress and ultimate success. During this first cohort, students pushed themselves to turn in their work on time and hit the deadlines, even when it was challenging. It wasn’t easy, but the results were remarkable

More than a few students admitted that without deadlines, they would have stalled or fallen behind. With them, they found motivation, momentum, and the confidence to continue.

Even students who struggled felt proud they consistently showed up. They rose to the challenge, often leaning on one another with empathy and understanding, and their growth was extraordinary. Learning to embrace imperfect submissions was part of the process, and it gave them the momentum to just keep writing

Accountability is essential in the book-writing process and is one of the most important tools authors can use to not just make it through the messy middle, but thrive in it. 

#2 We Can Do More Together Than We Can Alone 

Writing can feel solitary. Just you and an (often) blank screen, day after day. But it doesn’t have to be. In a group dynamic, writers were able to learn together, share struggles and turn them into wins, and find support and encouragement that made progress possible. 

During the live sessions, students quickly discovered that the questions they thought were theirs alone were actually shared by the group. One brave question often unlocked breakthroughs for everyone. Some authors began quietly, listening in the background until a classmate’s question sparked the courage to ask their own. Others jumped in vulnerably right away, giving voice to what many were feeling. In both cases, the cohort dynamic amplified learning: each author’s voice was valuable, and the entire group benefited from the insights they shared.

For me, the group dynamic is always wonderful to witness. Watching quiet authors find their voice, seeing vulnerability met with encouragement, and noticing how one person’s courage creates ripples of growth for the entire cohort are reminders that writing a book may feel like a solitary act, but the journey certainly doesn’t have to be lonely.

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"I came in thinking I was writing a memoir, but by week nine, I had a clear framework and it was a magical moment. The light bulb went off and it really was like the catalyst for me to get the rest of this writing done."
Cathyrine Armandie
CEO of GauxMax LLC and Podcast Host of Lies My Ego Told Me

#3 Embrace the Process, Not Just the Final Product 

In designing GRAD | Book Writing Mastery, we knew our students needed a proven methodology, one built in service to the reader, and by extension, the author. That’s why we partnered with AJ Harper, a prolific ghostwriter and bestselling author of Write a Must-Read: Craft a Book That Changes Lives—Including Your Own.

The program emerged out of our shared vision for what a great book-writing program should be. AJ wanted more authors to have access to her methodology and to master the fundamentals—and partnering with HEROIC made that possible. Her philosophy, standards, and vision of excellence aligned perfectly with HEROIC’s mission. Both HEROIC and AJ see the work as much more than simply “getting a book done” but rather about writing a reader-focused book that achieves transformation. 

With over 25 years of writing, editing, and publishing experience, AJ masterfully walks students through the same process she uses as a ghostwriter with bestselling authors to create transformational, reader-focused books. It was a rare chance for students to learn the very same approach trusted by bestselling authors while experiencing it in a community designed to support their growth.

Students loved watching AJ model her process in real time. Yes, they got worksheets, writing prompts, and templates. But even more powerful was getting an inside look at her actual writing process: hearing her narrate her thinking, watching her leave breadcrumbs for herself when she hit a rough point, and then seeing those “stuck” moments later unlock unexpected lightbulb moments. It showed students what writing really looks like: wrestling with ideas, tinkering, getting stuck, refining, and iterating until clarity emerges.

Watching AJ demonstrate that the “messy middle” is normal gave students permission to celebrate the ups and downs, embrace their own uncertainty, and trust that the process works.

#4 Feedback Turns Uncertainty Into Clarity 

One of the hardest parts of writing is simply not knowing if you’re on the right track. Left alone, many authors stall out in that uncertainty. What our first cohort discovered is that the right kind of feedback can transform your progress.

Editors, of course, provided invaluable guidance. Developmental notes on an outline or a chapter often revealed blind spots and opened up new possibilities students hadn’t considered. Again and again, students called this feedback “life-changing” and named it as one of the most valuable aspects of the program. 

But what surprised many of them was how powerful it was to test their ideas with real readers. They could see what sparked curiosity and what made a reader say, “I need this book.” Even when they weren’t actively testing ideas, working through their outlines with the reader in mind changed everything. 

Again and again, students told us that being reminded to ask, “Does this serve my reader?” was the breakthrough they needed. The more they practiced writing through that lens, the more confident they became in shaping a book that could truly transform their readers.

Feedback isn’t criticism, it’s momentum. For these students, whether it came from the Writing Faculty, a peer, or their own self-edits, feedback turned uncertainty into clarity and doubt into renewed commitment.

#5 Return to the Fundamentals

Writing a book is a creative endeavor, and like any creative process, it’s easy to drift off course or begin to stall when you lose clarity. That’s why the fundamentals are so important: they’re the guideposts that keep you grounded and moving forward.

In GRAD | Book Writing Mastery, authors refined these essential book-writing fundamentals: 

  • Primary Reader: Profoundly knowing your reader, understanding their wants, needs, problems, and challenges. 
  • Core Message: The central idea of your book that shifts your reader’s perspective and sparks transformation.
  • Promise: The change your readers will experience by the last page if they follow through.

What surprised many students was how deeply they had to think about these fundamentals. They weren’t just filling in boxes; they were being asked hard, nuanced questions that pushed them further than they would have gone on their own. AJ often emphasized that too many authors skip this step—they rush ahead without doing the deep work—yet it makes all the difference

That level of detail forced them to anticipate their readers’ needs, clarify their message, and imagine how their book would truly land. As they wrote, authors returned again and again to questions like: 

  • Will this help me deliver on my promise to my readers?
  • Does this help my readers get what they want? 
  • Is this story/section/teaching point in service to my readers? 

Coming back to the fundamentals (especially when you feel stuck) is the way forward. It’s what makes the writing process repeatable. With them, authors don’t just get unstuck, they gain a framework they can trust

What’s Next on the Author Journey for Our First-Cohort Students

The author’s journey is a marathon, not a sprint. Drafting, revising, testing, and preparing for publishing often takes longer than you think, and each stage comes with its own obstacles and breakthroughs. 

After 12 challenging weeks of learning and growth, students didn’t just graduate with a polished first chapter, they finished with a complete book outline, clearly developed fundamentals, and a repeatable process they’ll continue to use as they finish their book. Perhaps most importantly, they left with greater confidence in their ability to keep going and a community they know they can turn to when the road feels hard. 

Now, when the messy middle shows up again (as it always does), they have tools, structure, and reminders to steady them. What once felt insurmountable now feels navigable—maybe not easy, but purposeful and possible.

And that may be the greatest lesson of all: progress doesn’t mean the struggle disappears, it means you’re equipped to keep moving through it.

For these 12 authors, that long-awaited moment when they’ll hold their published book in their hands and sign it for a grateful reader is closer than ever before. The books aren’t finished yet, but the foundation is solid, and with it, the confidence that their books will be exactly what their readers need.

The first cohort reminded us of a principle we stand by: writing a reader-focused book isn’t about talent or luck, it’s about committing to the process, using the right tools and resources, and surrounding yourself with people who will encourage you along the way. 

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Getting Stuck Isn’t Failure, It’s Part of the Process

In May of 2025, we celebrated the culmination of months of dedicated work, deep learning, feedback, and hands-on progress 12 authors made writing their books in the inaugural GRAD | Book Writing Mastery cohort. As Student Success Manager working with the first cohort, I observed students' progress throughout the program.

Like all authors, these HEROIC Alumni wrestled with doubts, obstacles, and getting stuck. The difference was that this cohort had structure, support, and accountability to help them keep moving forward.

We knew they’d encounter obstacles along the way; meaningful work always comes with friction. That’s why we designed this writing program with specific ways to help authors grow and progress on their authorship journey. As an educator, I’ve seen it again and again: without structure and accountability, students drift; with it, they grow. 

And these authors grew tremendously. They discovered frameworks they didn’t even realize they had. They started bravely down new paths as fresh ideas emerged. They gained clarity about their book, their message, and their authority as an author. The courage and growth I witnessed in this first cohort was simply extraordinary. 

We were reminded once again of this valuable truth: the writers who push through the messy middle often discover the most original insights.

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Five Strategies for Overcoming the Messy Middle 

Every element in the program (from tools, resources, and support systems to the very structure of the writing process) was intentionally designed to help students master the fundamentals that shape the foundation of a great book. They didn’t just learn about writing; they actually did the work, step by step, building from those fundamentals upward.

And when authors did get stuck, we made sure there was always a way to get unstuck. These five essential aspects helped authors progress on their writing journey, especially in the moments when they felt discouraged or unsure.

#1 Accountability: the Fuel for Momentum 

Since the beginning phases of GRAD | Book Writing Mastery’s creation, we knew that accountability would be a major pillar of each individual author’s progress and ultimate success. During this first cohort, students pushed themselves to turn in their work on time and hit the deadlines, even when it was challenging. It wasn’t easy, but the results were remarkable

More than a few students admitted that without deadlines, they would have stalled or fallen behind. With them, they found motivation, momentum, and the confidence to continue.

Even students who struggled felt proud they consistently showed up. They rose to the challenge, often leaning on one another with empathy and understanding, and their growth was extraordinary. Learning to embrace imperfect submissions was part of the process, and it gave them the momentum to just keep writing

Accountability is essential in the book-writing process and is one of the most important tools authors can use to not just make it through the messy middle, but thrive in it. 

#2 We Can Do More Together Than We Can Alone 

Writing can feel solitary. Just you and an (often) blank screen, day after day. But it doesn’t have to be. In a group dynamic, writers were able to learn together, share struggles and turn them into wins, and find support and encouragement that made progress possible. 

During the live sessions, students quickly discovered that the questions they thought were theirs alone were actually shared by the group. One brave question often unlocked breakthroughs for everyone. Some authors began quietly, listening in the background until a classmate’s question sparked the courage to ask their own. Others jumped in vulnerably right away, giving voice to what many were feeling. In both cases, the cohort dynamic amplified learning: each author’s voice was valuable, and the entire group benefited from the insights they shared.

For me, the group dynamic is always wonderful to witness. Watching quiet authors find their voice, seeing vulnerability met with encouragement, and noticing how one person’s courage creates ripples of growth for the entire cohort are reminders that writing a book may feel like a solitary act, but the journey certainly doesn’t have to be lonely.

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"I came in thinking I was writing a memoir, but by week nine, I had a clear framework and it was a magical moment. The light bulb went off and it really was like the catalyst for me to get the rest of this writing done."
Cathyrine Armandie
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CEO of GauxMax LLC and Podcast Host of Lies My Ego Told Me

#3 Embrace the Process, Not Just the Final Product 

In designing GRAD | Book Writing Mastery, we knew our students needed a proven methodology, one built in service to the reader, and by extension, the author. That’s why we partnered with AJ Harper, a prolific ghostwriter and bestselling author of Write a Must-Read: Craft a Book That Changes Lives—Including Your Own.

The program emerged out of our shared vision for what a great book-writing program should be. AJ wanted more authors to have access to her methodology and to master the fundamentals—and partnering with HEROIC made that possible. Her philosophy, standards, and vision of excellence aligned perfectly with HEROIC’s mission. Both HEROIC and AJ see the work as much more than simply “getting a book done” but rather about writing a reader-focused book that achieves transformation. 

With over 25 years of writing, editing, and publishing experience, AJ masterfully walks students through the same process she uses as a ghostwriter with bestselling authors to create transformational, reader-focused books. It was a rare chance for students to learn the very same approach trusted by bestselling authors while experiencing it in a community designed to support their growth.

Students loved watching AJ model her process in real time. Yes, they got worksheets, writing prompts, and templates. But even more powerful was getting an inside look at her actual writing process: hearing her narrate her thinking, watching her leave breadcrumbs for herself when she hit a rough point, and then seeing those “stuck” moments later unlock unexpected lightbulb moments. It showed students what writing really looks like: wrestling with ideas, tinkering, getting stuck, refining, and iterating until clarity emerges.

Watching AJ demonstrate that the “messy middle” is normal gave students permission to celebrate the ups and downs, embrace their own uncertainty, and trust that the process works.

#4 Feedback Turns Uncertainty Into Clarity 

One of the hardest parts of writing is simply not knowing if you’re on the right track. Left alone, many authors stall out in that uncertainty. What our first cohort discovered is that the right kind of feedback can transform your progress.

Editors, of course, provided invaluable guidance. Developmental notes on an outline or a chapter often revealed blind spots and opened up new possibilities students hadn’t considered. Again and again, students called this feedback “life-changing” and named it as one of the most valuable aspects of the program. 

But what surprised many of them was how powerful it was to test their ideas with real readers. They could see what sparked curiosity and what made a reader say, “I need this book.” Even when they weren’t actively testing ideas, working through their outlines with the reader in mind changed everything. 

Again and again, students told us that being reminded to ask, “Does this serve my reader?” was the breakthrough they needed. The more they practiced writing through that lens, the more confident they became in shaping a book that could truly transform their readers.

Feedback isn’t criticism, it’s momentum. For these students, whether it came from the Writing Faculty, a peer, or their own self-edits, feedback turned uncertainty into clarity and doubt into renewed commitment.

#5 Return to the Fundamentals

Writing a book is a creative endeavor, and like any creative process, it’s easy to drift off course or begin to stall when you lose clarity. That’s why the fundamentals are so important: they’re the guideposts that keep you grounded and moving forward.

In GRAD | Book Writing Mastery, authors refined these essential book-writing fundamentals: 

  • Primary Reader: Profoundly knowing your reader, understanding their wants, needs, problems, and challenges. 
  • Core Message: The central idea of your book that shifts your reader’s perspective and sparks transformation.
  • Promise: The change your readers will experience by the last page if they follow through.

What surprised many students was how deeply they had to think about these fundamentals. They weren’t just filling in boxes; they were being asked hard, nuanced questions that pushed them further than they would have gone on their own. AJ often emphasized that too many authors skip this step—they rush ahead without doing the deep work—yet it makes all the difference

That level of detail forced them to anticipate their readers’ needs, clarify their message, and imagine how their book would truly land. As they wrote, authors returned again and again to questions like: 

  • Will this help me deliver on my promise to my readers?
  • Does this help my readers get what they want? 
  • Is this story/section/teaching point in service to my readers? 

Coming back to the fundamentals (especially when you feel stuck) is the way forward. It’s what makes the writing process repeatable. With them, authors don’t just get unstuck, they gain a framework they can trust

What’s Next on the Author Journey for Our First-Cohort Students

The author’s journey is a marathon, not a sprint. Drafting, revising, testing, and preparing for publishing often takes longer than you think, and each stage comes with its own obstacles and breakthroughs. 

After 12 challenging weeks of learning and growth, students didn’t just graduate with a polished first chapter, they finished with a complete book outline, clearly developed fundamentals, and a repeatable process they’ll continue to use as they finish their book. Perhaps most importantly, they left with greater confidence in their ability to keep going and a community they know they can turn to when the road feels hard. 

Now, when the messy middle shows up again (as it always does), they have tools, structure, and reminders to steady them. What once felt insurmountable now feels navigable—maybe not easy, but purposeful and possible.

And that may be the greatest lesson of all: progress doesn’t mean the struggle disappears, it means you’re equipped to keep moving through it.

For these 12 authors, that long-awaited moment when they’ll hold their published book in their hands and sign it for a grateful reader is closer than ever before. The books aren’t finished yet, but the foundation is solid, and with it, the confidence that their books will be exactly what their readers need.

The first cohort reminded us of a principle we stand by: writing a reader-focused book isn’t about talent or luck, it’s about committing to the process, using the right tools and resources, and surrounding yourself with people who will encourage you along the way. 

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