This article was updated March 2026.Â
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You’re onstage, giving your performance as usual, when suddenly your worst nightmare starts to play out before your eyes…
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You have an embarrassing flub of your lines.
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Your slides stop working and the tech guy looks at you with panic in his eyes.
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A large man stands up in the back of the room and shouts something out to you.Â
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Suddenly, the entire room goes pitch black.
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These unexpected moments might happen during any performance. For most speakers, just the thought can spike cortisol levels. Â
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It’s completely normal to experience some degree of anxiety around the fact that you simply can’t control everything that happens during your performance.Â
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In fact, dealing with unscripted moments onstage is one of the most important yet most overlooked topics in the public-speaking world.Â
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The typical advice out there—stay calm, think on your feet, be professional, adapt to the situation, and be positive—might not do much to calm your nerves.
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While those are great reminders, they don’t actually explain what to do in those situations or how to deal with the unexpected. And they leave out the most important part: the audience.Â
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What NOT to Do When Disaster StrikesÂ
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Just to clarify, you don’t need to address every single miniscule interruption that happens during your presentation. Sometimes it’s best to maintain the audience’s focus on you and just keep going.Â
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But if there’s an elephant in the room, you’d better address it. Because there’s one big mistake you don’t want to make when the unexpected strikes: ignoring it.Â
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When an audience member shouts something out at you, when a phone starts ringing, when a technical issue happens, you must acknowledge it in some way. You know it happened, they know it happened; it’s weird to just ignore it.Â
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In fact, pretending it didn’t happen can create a huge disconnect between you and your audience. It subliminally tells them that the connection they feel with you and the relationship you’re trying to build are false.Â
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Now, during the seconds you try to come up with something clever to say, you’ll probably feel like an eternity and a half has gone by in awkward silence. It will feel like your audience is staring at you, holding their breath, thinking you’ve lost it.Â
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But the truth is, they can’t even tell. To them, it’s just a very brief—even imperceptible—moment.Â
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Give yourself some grace. If something unexpected happens, you can breathe, assess the situation, consider what your audience needs, and react. Then you can get back to doing what you’re onstage to do: create a transformational experience for your audience.


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