You know the feeling: you’re sitting in the audience, smiling politely, nodding occasionally, but really, you checked out twenty minutes ago. As the minutes drag by, it only becomes more obvious. This speaker just doesn't understand what it’s like to be in your position, dealing with your unique challenges, and feeling what you feel on a daily basis.
The speaker likely hopes the audience members will leave motivated and ready to put their ideas into practice. But honestly, all you can think about is leaving (period).
As a professional speaker, you hold a kind of magic. Your words, your performance, your stories, they all have the potential to deeply connect you to each of the people in front of you. But that magic only works when it’s aimed in the right direction.
First, you must know who your unique audience is. No matter how brilliant your ideas, how novel your solutions, and how captivating your stories, if they aren’t in service of a specific audience, they just won’t land.
Many speakers brush past the essential legwork of ideation and audience identification. The result? Speeches that sound polished, but ultimately miss the mark. (It’s like serving a five-star meal to someone who’s not hungry, or worse, allergic to the main ingredient.)
But when you do the deep work and get specific about your audience and what they truly need, the shift happens. You’re not just speaking, you’re transforming, inspiring, and igniting change.
When you know your audience, your speech builds a bridge. One that connects, protects, and comforts. Every story, every idea, and every framework you share whispers: I see you. I’ve got you. Let’s achieve this together.
Your Speech Is Not for Everyone
Often, when speakers are asked who their message is for, they respond with “anyone” or “everyone.” While your ideas might be applicable to many people, you’ll deliver a better speech with a greater impact when you tailor it towards a specific group of people. Why? Because it’s easier to connect with a specific group of people than with the entire world.
A speech for everyone is really a speech for no one. We often hear students say their audience is “women” or “anyone who’s ever felt self-doubt.” While these audiences are slightly more specific than “everyone,” they’re still not specific enough to create real impact.
Half of the world is made up of women; what sets your audience apart? Are they women in aerospace engineering? Women navigating life with type 1 diabetes? Women raising children with special needs? Women in Mensa, the International High-IQ Society? Women in the military?
A speech crafted for women in Mensa wrestling with self-doubt will be very different from a speech crafted for women in the military battling their inner critic. Different values. Different lived realities. Different vocabularies.
The more precisely you can speak to their world, their struggles, and their experiences, the more your words will impact the ones who need to hear them most.